Why Online Coaching?

Couples all around the world are struggling…

That’s why I took my practice online.

If you’re desperate to save your marriage with the person you love, you no longer have to worry about living nearby.

Whether you’re in California, New York, or New Zealand, if you have access to the internet, I can help heal your marriage.

Let’s face it: Online is the way to go…

You just clocked out of your job, and it’s been a long day. The last thing you want to do is travel across town to someone’s office. You can look forward to healing your marriage as soon as possible instead of commuting. With online coaching, the furthest you might travel is from your kitchen to your room. You and your spouse can meet me from your favorite spot on the couch.

Time is important. It’s the only resource you have that you can’t get back. So why waste it on a commute when you and your spouse can jump right into a coaching call with me. The more time you spend learning effective communication and problem-solving skills, the less time you’ll spend fighting with your loved one.

Traffic is awful. There are speeders, car accidents, drivers swerving in and out of traffic. You already have a lot on your mind. Take away the stress of staying vigilant on the road – no worries about car accidents or even speed traps! You can also take away the stress of running late and being stuck in traffic. Plus, you’ll avoid the potential arguments with your spouse that might come from being stuck in a car with each other in a high-stress environment!

Maybe even better than in-person sessions…

I have found that working together online is as effective and personal as in-person. Why? Other than the reasons I’ve mentioned above, here is an important reason.

Working together online can also make it easier to be transparent and vulnerable at your “home base.” You can be comfortable in your home, and you can be free to be yourself.

The more truthful you can be with me, the more effective our work together will be. Have you heard it said the more honest you can be with your doctor, the better the doctor will diagnose/recommend treatment to you? It’s going to be similar in our work together to heal your marriage. I can’t give you the right tools if a dishonest portrait of the marriage is presented to me: more honesty, more healing.

You also don’t have to worry about getting dressed up for the occasion. Wear your pajamas or sweatpants (but, please, wear pants!). Healing your marriage can be uncomfortable, but your clothes don’t have to be.

Finally, you can associate your positive gains and practice your skills where you’ll need and use them most. That’s usually at home, where you spend most of your time with your spouse.

Here’s how it works…

Our sessions will take place over Zoom. To protect your privacy, I create a unique, password-protected session for each couple.

You and your spouse can log in from anywhere. So, even if you’re not physically together, we can all join in at the same time.

You will need a reliable internet connection so we can see and hear each other without interruptions. We want to avoid being in the middle of a conversation, and we’re frozen in mid-sentence. Let’s keep the healing process flowing with a reliable internet connection. Secure and direct ethernet connection would be best, or high-speed Wi-Fi if needed.

You can use any device with video capability – your smartphone with a camera, laptop with a camera, desktop with a camera, etc.

I also ask each couple to keep their coaching session time sacred and private. This means finding a space away from strangers and a quiet background free of distractions. If you’re using a phone, find a spot or device to stabilize the phone so that I can see both of you.

See for yourself how good online relationship coaching can be!

I understand how scary or uncomfortable it can be to reach out to a stranger and ask for help with your marriage. If you have read this far, I congratulate you for seeking help to improve your marriage. I am happy you have begun your journey to fostering a loving & peaceful relationship, and I am here to guide you to forging a SoulMate marriage.

I offer a 30-minute complimentary consultation to determine if we are a good fit for each other.

If you are ready to heal your marriage with practical skills, just like many other couples before you, you can book your complimentary consultation session here or give me a call at (951) 387-8554.